- Parse `Retry-After` headers (delay-seconds or HTTP-date) into `retryAfterMs` via a new `parseRetryAfterMs` helper and expose the value on both `LookupAttempt` and `LookupResult` so callers can honour server-requested back-off without parsing the error string
- Propagate `retryAfterMs` through `classifyError`, `traced`, `failure`, and the `rdap_unavailable` path so the value surfaces on the top-level result
- Add `blocked` to `LookupErrorCode` for WHOIS servers that permanently refuse a client (distinct from `rate_limited`, which is a temporary throttle that may succeed on retry)
- Add `blockPrivateAddresses` to `WhoisTransportOptions`; when set, a custom `dns.lookup` shim rejects the connection before it opens if any resolved address is non-public, covering DNS rebinding and hostnames that resolve to private ranges
- Expand `isPrivateIp` / `isSafeWhoisReferralHost` to reject IPv4-mapped (`::ffff:7f00:1`), NAT64 (`64:ff9b::`), 6to4 (`2002:7f00::`), Teredo (`2001:0:`), deprecated site-local (`fec0::`), and bracketed IPv6 literals
